Cook the rice. Start your preferred rice so it’s ready when everything else is done. Fluff with a fork and keep warm.
Mix the crema. In a small bowl, stir together sour cream (or yogurt), mayo, lime juice, cilantro, garlic, and salt.
Taste and adjust lime or salt. Chill until serving.
Season the chicken. In a bowl, toss chicken with olive oil, chili powder, smoked paprika, cumin, garlic powder, salt, and pepper. Let it sit while you heat the pan.
Make the hot honey. In another small bowl, combine honey, hot sauce, apple cider vinegar or lime juice, red pepper flakes if using, and a pinch of salt.
Set aside.
Char the corn. Heat a large skillet over medium-high. Add butter or oil, then the corn. Let it sit undisturbed for 2–3 minutes to get some color.
Stir, then season with chili powder, smoked paprika, salt, and pepper. Cook until lightly charred, 5–7 minutes total. Turn off heat, mix in cotija and lime juice.
Transfer to a bowl and keep warm.
Cook the chicken. In the same skillet, add a little more oil if needed. Sear chicken over medium-high heat until browned and cooked through, about 6–8 minutes, stirring occasionally.
Glaze with hot honey. Reduce heat to low. Pour in the hot honey sauce and toss to coat.
Let it bubble for 1–2 minutes until glossy and slightly thickened. Remove from heat.
Assemble the bowls. Add a bed of rice to each bowl. Top with a generous scoop of street corn, hot honey chicken, avocado, and red onion.
Drizzle with the cilantro lime crema. Finish with cilantro, a squeeze of lime, and a sprinkle of Tajin if you like.
Taste and adjust. Add more lime for brightness, extra hot sauce for heat, or a touch more honey if you prefer sweeter.